Archive for August, 2010
Let’s take a mental test: Are you a parent? Are you sick of lugging boogie boards and pails to the beach? Are you tired of faking a smile on family trips? Are you disgusted with going back and forth to pick up your child at play-dates? If you answered “yes” to the questions above, you are among hundreds of other parents who are jumping for joy that Back to school time is near!! This means playtime for you! Long gone are the days of packing the car with beach gear, taking day trips, and shoving the children off to play-dates. This is the perfect time of the year to indulge a little bit, and take a good, hard look at your relationship and the one thing it is missing: spontaneity, lust and ALONE TIME. Ashley Madison is sky rocketing with new profiles of parents, men and women jumping at the opportunity to get away from the “family life.”. As a user of Ashley Madison, I have noticed the influx of users since the beginning of August to now. Initially you think it’s an Ashley Madison scam, but when you’re communicating with these men in real time, you lay that worry to rest.
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Having an affair is not easy as most people may think. An affair is not just the torrid romp in the hay as many late-night movies may portray them to be. It does take some thought and tact to pull the perfect liaison. The object here is to keep the affair a secret while still keeping things together at home with the loving spouse. The only difference here is that you have to consider the needs of three people; you, your wife and your mistress. Most matchmaking website look at married folks as negative, and don’t want them on their site as all. Cheating sites like Ashley Madison embrace this concept, and promotes the importance of discretion.
Be honest with the mistress. Let her know that you are married so that she can go into the situation with open eyes. She may have some expectations of the relationship but surely she won’t expect you to leave your wife and marry her if you make your intentions clear from the very beginning.
Account for your time. You don’t want the affair to be a source of problems and stress. The affair should be exciting and carefree – totally different from the rest of your hectic life. So remain discreet and make sure that the wife is not suspecting that you are not in the places that you claim to be.
Use cash, but not too much of it. Again, discretion is the key here. Do not use credit cards to wine and dine your mistress or to buy her flowers and lingerie. These are things that the wife can find. Don’t bank simply on the fact that she never opens the bills. Also do not do these things for the other woman at the expense of your family. You need to be able to maintain some semblance of normalcy to cover the affair.
Having an affair requires planning and communication. Make sure that your mistress knows where and when she can call. The last thing that you want to do is to have your wife find out. You’ll then have no need to ashley madison, and going right back to your generic dating sites (how boring!).
Ashley Madison has cornered an emerging market on the web. By catering to the cheating and affairs world, they are allowing these discreet relationships to happen in just about every town. I was at a steak house last night, and I was surprised to see how many people knew of ashley madison and were very open about the conversation. All these guys worked in the corporate world, made ok money, but hated their jobs. When they spoke about their encounters / relationships on Ashley Madison their eyes lit up like a little school boy.
They of course didn’t feel this was an ashley madison scam, but they didn’t like the Ashley Madison mobile platform. They felt it just never was up to date. The way they looked at it, if they were on their phone , they’re looking for a girl RIGHT NOW. Ashley Madison mobile just doesn’t cater to this properly.
Did you see the new Facebook Places functionality? Now that’s cool, Ashley needs to incorporate that type of functionality within their membership base.
Back to the guys at the bar, they were raving about the relationships. Everything from your typical bored housewife to that girl in college looking for some financial help. When I asked them about the guarantee (where ashley will give you your money back if you don’t have an affair), they all said they never needed it. They found these encounters within the first month of being on the site.
All in all, these guys sound like many of the men out there that are into discreet relationships. Now you throw in fantasy football season starting, I’m sure boys will be boys even more so! My one tidbit, when you’re looking to join Ashley Madison, be sure NOT include a picture (between work, family and friends, there is bound to be someone you know on ashley!)
Seems like s simple question right? I know tons of married guys that love looking through the escort section of craigslist or through any free personals site out there. Thing is, some of these guys will never actually meet these women So I ask, why put yourself through that? I mean, why email and converse with these women if you aren’t pulling the trigger. Their answer is quite simple, they like the idea of HAVING THE ABILITY to have an affair with another women if they WANTED to, but won’t actually do it. WHAT?
You see, I think that’s more demented than having an actual affair. The other side of the spectrum are the guys that ARE looking for a REAL affair. While some revert to the escort route (which I highly DO NOT recommend from the disease factor alone), there are some that look for that discreet encounter. That’s where Ashley Madison comes in. This discreet dating site has nearly 7 million members all looking for a discreet encounter / affair.
What I was surprised to learn is some of those same guys (from the first paragraph) actually PAY to join sites like Ashley. They chat with these women, but never actually meet them. Why do that to yourself? I mean, I totally understand the mental tug of war you’re going through. You want to be faithful to your partner, while the other side wants to feel that “newness” of a different woman. After all, it’s human nature to want change, but is this sort of change good for you?
Only you can answer this question, but if you’re the type that is looking at escorts and women constantly and never meeting them, then you need to do something. Either confront your wife of what’s truly bothering you (which for most men it’s the natural desire of wanting a new sexual encounter) or actually go out there and have that affair and move on with it. If you are going to do, give your partner enough respect to not do it with an escort. Why bring diseases home ya know? Go the guaranteed affair route with Ashley >>
As a lady in my late twenties and married, I scoffed at cheaters and couldn’t imagine a time when my life would turn into the life of a cheater, but it did and it still is. Initially when I saw sites like Ashleymadison, my thoughts were this can’t be, this must be an Ashley Madison scam. You would say I’m not the “cheating type,” but really, who is? On Ashley Madison, I was refreshed to see I am not alone in thinking this way. The men I have found have been in similar situations as me and believe it or not, most have secure jobs and are looking for the same thing I am: no strings attached.
As an extremely cautious person, the fear gripped me as to where I would meet these men. After much research and investigation, pondering around local spots, here are some top places for cheaters to meet. These are ones I HIGHLY recommend:
It all begins with a hot cup of Joe and then you slip into one of your cars and the rest is history. But please, don’t make it your local coffee joint where the baristas know your name and how you take your coffee!
Pump That Iron
I know it seems ludicrous to carry on a cheating relationship in a gym, but who spots who all nice and sweaty, I shall leave that up to the imagination. Try it, it works!
Parks not only offer many secluded areas and privacy, but also welcome the fresh feel of nature. But ladies, not to be attempted in the colder months.
Straight Up/No Olive
For those that need a bit of a relaxer as you delve into these “uncharted waters,” bars create that welcoming atmosphere where a slip of the hand or a kiss can be deemed as acceptable behaviors when alcohol is involved.
Read Between The Lines
Between the pages of Plato, Shakespeare, and Jane Austen, book stores are loaded with secluded areas. Especially those that are multi-floored and offer aisles upon aisles of books that have not been looked at by a consumer in months. Use these aisles to your advantage. For the do not’s refer to barista rule and don’t go local!
Until we meet again, use these tips and remember like a puppet, your strings have been snipped. Use that to be free and the powerful, endearing woman that you are. When you become a member of Ashley Madison, you are not only going to find that man that fits your needs, but your strings will be unattached and that = plain, sexual fun! Be part of Ashley’s Affair Guarantee Program Here >>
written by Salacious Sally
We are proud to announce a new addition to the AshleyMadisonScam family. We wanted to dedicate a section of our site specifically towards the Woman’s Point of View. We all know what guys think, but there’s really only one way to get into the minds of women, and that is by having an actual FEMALE writer. AshleymadisonScam introduces Salacious Sally, look for her first article tomorrow. We are quite excited to have Sally on board, we hope you find her take on affairs in a discreet world through ashley madison informative! You can read all her articles under the Woman’s POV category to the right.
So here I am in Las Vegas, spending time at the Rio pool and I come to a realization. There are so many older women that keep themselves in amazing shape. Now, I don’t mean cougars (totally not a fan of the term as it puts women into a negative light), but they have an aura about them that I just can’t put my finger on. Maybe it’s the fact that many of these women have true life experiences. Married, divorced, kids… and through all this they keep themselves in great shape with their head held high. They know they look great, and they don’t settle for any man, even if they are already married.
The main issue for these women is the need for discretion. While there are cougar sites out there, they simply do not address the need for these well rounded independent attractive older women. If you do a search on AshleyMadison.com, you’ll start seeing there is a growing percentage of women over 35 years old. The funny thing about these women is they are quite attractive, and stress the importance of discretion.
This trend speaks volumes to the needs out there in society. Instead of an Ashley Madison scam, you get a bird’s eye peek into the true desires of these older attractive women. To make things more interesting for men to join, Ashley promotes their affair guarantee. They offer one package for $249 that guarantees you an affair within 3 months or your money back. Finally something where you don’t have anything to lose and all to gain!
We all know the popularity of Craigslist, but did you know a majority of their revenue comes from their adult section? Translation, craigslist enables pimps and people to sell their bodies for sex. This is nothing new, but what is new is the negative media attention that craigslist is getting, FINALLY! CNN ran an interesting story about craigslist.
A CNN reporter (Amber Lynn) asked Craig Newmark Founder of Craigslist “What you are you doing to protect these women from human trafficking?” His response was an awkward 10 second silence. 10 seconds of silence, that’s the best you can do Craig? Here you are profiting off of human trafficking and you have no comment! Here is the link to the CNN video .
Don’t get me wrong, Craigslist is a medium like every other classified site. What’s troublesome here is the effects this has on underage women AND women forced into prostitution. Since a high percentage of individuals that use escorts are married men, you should stay away from Craigslist. Between the severely high risk of getting STDs (and bringing this into your home) and having a sexual encounter with a woman against her will, there are other ways of getting the encounter.
There’s only one site out there that guarantees you an affair or your money back. For $249 (cheaper than an STD filled escort from craigslist), you are guaranteed an affair. Sure it’s a little pricy, but you get your money back if you have no luck. With nearly 7 million members all looking for discretion, stay away from the negatives of craigslist and get a guarantee of a lifetime!
Ever since the proposed Giants Stadium naming rights in June, we haven’t heard much from AshleyMadison.com in the press. Maybe it’s all that time married couples have to spend with each other in the summer, especially if they have kids. Or maybe it’s just been a little more hush-hush for those cheating members. Ultimately, once the summer ends and school is back in session, so is the activity at ashley madison.
One of the main misconceptions of this affairs dating site is that it’s only for married people looking to cheat with other married people. Did you know there is a hotbed of underground subcultures that occur with this discreet dating service? Before you think ashley madison scam, take a look at the top 4 subcultures:
#4 Asian Women
For all men that have used massage parlors in the past (and present), we all have that love for a good asian massage parlor. The women are petite, almost no body fat, and are extremely obedient. With the generational shift of asian women throughout the world, there is an increase in educated well versed HOT asian women working in the corporate world. Most of these asian women with money and power are married. With this money and power comes a sense of independence, which never existed before for asian females. Instead of turning to co-workers (asian women are way too smart for this), they turn to discreet relationships outside of their existing marriage / relationship. Hard to see an ashley madison scam here with the increase of female asian signups. Learn more about Ashley Madison’s Asian discreet dating here >>
#3 Bondage / S&M
Bondage and S&M is extremely tight lipped community. Unless you are on the inside, it’s very hard to determine who is into this. The fascinating stuff about this community is how much respect is given to both sides. While these genre of sexuality has existed for ages, you are seeing a new shift within society. Married men and women are looking outside their marriage to explore bondage in a discreet manner. Now this blurs the line of your typical affair as it’s to purse an area of sexuality that does not exist in their present relationship / marriage. While bondage sites directly help like minded individuals, the issue with those sites is the inability to cater to the discreet married man or woman looking for a partner in that area. Given this combination, you can see why this is a perfect fit for many on ashley. Learn more about Ashley Madison’s bondage discreet dating here >>
#2 Older Women Younger Men
We all heard of the word cougar, but that was so 2000. Nowadays, older women are more independent and healthier than ever (well at the least the ones that have a liking to the desperate housewives / bachelor reality TV shows). While most of these women are married (many more than once), they are missing that key component in their lives: sexual chemistry. Yes they probably had it at one time with their partner, but with age and stress (boredom too) comes a severe decrease in bedroom activities. These women, while still in their sexual prime, are looking towards younger men to shoulder the burden (oh and what a fine burden it is!). The problem with cougar sites is just that, they are not cougars and are repulsed by the word. Instead, they look to discreet dating sites like AshleyMadison to find that younger discreet partner. If there’s an ashley madison scam here, it’s that these women sometimes do not like giving out there real ages. Isn’t age just a number at this point?! You through in ashley madison’s affair guarantee program, you have nothing to lose here!
#1 Sugar Babes Looking for Sugar Daddies – Kinda
Sugar daddies are basically wealthy men that are looking for young women to take care of. In return they receive companionship and some sort of intimacy. To many, they feel this sort of relationship is similar to an escort. The main difference here is the honesty involved. The man and the woman in this relationship are looking for very specific things, once those are established and reached, an interesting relationship blossoms.
Now, the difference here is that the sugar babe and or the sugar dad is already married and/or in a relationship. This brings discreet dating to a whole other level. Why go to straight out sugardaddies site (which let’s face it, these guys go to high end escorts before dealing with a whiny 20 year old), when you can get the discreet relationship knowing someone has so much to lose.
Given the economic climate throughout the world, you are seeing women looking to be taken care of in a different. Not with diamonds and jewelry, but with rent and lease payments. The sugar daddies don’t have the be as rich, and babes, well they get to still GTL (Gym, Tan, Laundry… Jersey Shore Shoutout – ha!). Once they introduced the affair guarantee program , it’s hard to look at any niche as an ashley madison scam