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Is it Really Cheating if There is No Sex?
Oct 4th
I guess the idea of cheating is different for everyone. I hear women say all the time that you don’t have to have sex in order to be a cheat. I think that is about the craziest thing that I have ever heard. So I asked a good friend of mine, who happens to be a woman, how she defines cheating.
Can You Cheat Without Having Sex?
According to Linda she says that a woman’s definition of cheating is having any relationship that you have to hide from your significant other. This supposedly is to include conversations, meetings and anything else that your significant other would disapprove of. Now this really confused me so I had a couple questions of my own.
So does that mean that when I am talking to Linda about my marriage or talking to her about things that I can’t discuss with my wife, does that mean that I am cheating on my wife ? Of course Linda says that is different. How convenient.
First of all cheating is not the bad word that so many treat it as. As a matter fact, I prefer the word extramarital as opposed to cheating. An extramarital affair is not having a conversation or even chatting online. I do agree that an extramarital affair is something that you don’t want your wife to find out about. That’s obvious. There are many reasons for having an extramarital affair. But I will say, at least for men, it has nothing to do with love. I love my wife and will give my last breath for her but I do like to have sex with other women. That does not make me love my wife any less or make me any less of a husband to her.
I like to think that my extramarital affair actually helps my marriage. I can ask my mistress her opinion when I think that my wife has lost her mind. She helps me to understand!
How to Have a Successful Affair
Aug 30th
Having an affair is not easy as most people may think. An affair is not just the torrid romp in the hay as many late-night movies may portray them to be. It does take some thought and tact to pull the perfect liaison. The object here is to keep the affair a secret while still keeping things together at home with the loving spouse. The only difference here is that you have to consider the needs of three people; you, your wife and your mistress. Most matchmaking website look at married folks as negative, and don’t want them on their site as all. Cheating sites like Ashley Madison embrace this concept, and promotes the importance of discretion.
How to Have a Successful Affair
Be honest with the mistress. Let her know that you are married so that she can go into the situation with open eyes. She may have some expectations of the relationship but surely she won’t expect you to leave your wife and marry her if you make your intentions clear from the very beginning.
Account for your time. You don’t want the affair to be a source of problems and stress. The affair should be exciting and carefree – totally different from the rest of your hectic life. So remain discreet and make sure that the wife is not suspecting that you are not in the places that you claim to be.
Use cash, but not too much of it. Again, discretion is the key here. Do not use credit cards to wine and dine your mistress or to buy her flowers and lingerie. These are things that the wife can find. Don’t bank simply on the fact that she never opens the bills. Also do not do these things for the other woman at the expense of your family. You need to be able to maintain some semblance of normalcy to cover the affair.
Having an affair requires planning and communication. Make sure that your mistress knows where and when she can call. The last thing that you want to do is to have your wife find out. You’ll then have no need to ashley madison, and going right back to your generic dating sites (how boring!).
Do You Fantasize About an Affair or REALLY Looking for One?
Aug 25th
Seems like s simple question right? I know tons of married guys that love looking through the escort section of craigslist or through any free personals site out there. Thing is, some of these guys will never actually meet these women So I ask, why put yourself through that? I mean, why email and converse with these women if you aren’t pulling the trigger. Their answer is quite simple, they like the idea of HAVING THE ABILITY to have an affair with another women if they WANTED to, but won’t actually do it. WHAT?
You see, I think that’s more demented than having an actual affair. The other side of the spectrum are the guys that ARE looking for a REAL affair. While some revert to the escort route (which I highly DO NOT recommend from the disease factor alone), there are some that look for that discreet encounter. That’s where Ashley Madison comes in. This discreet dating site has nearly 7 million members all looking for a discreet encounter / affair.
What I was surprised to learn is some of those same guys (from the first paragraph) actually PAY to join sites like Ashley. They chat with these women, but never actually meet them. Why do that to yourself? I mean, I totally understand the mental tug of war you’re going through. You want to be faithful to your partner, while the other side wants to feel that “newness” of a different woman. After all, it’s human nature to want change, but is this sort of change good for you?
Only you can answer this question, but if you’re the type that is looking at escorts and women constantly and never meeting them, then you need to do something. Either confront your wife of what’s truly bothering you (which for most men it’s the natural desire of wanting a new sexual encounter) or actually go out there and have that affair and move on with it. If you are going to do, give your partner enough respect to not do it with an escort. Why bring diseases home ya know? Go the guaranteed affair route with Ashley >>
Things You Need to Know When Using Ashley Madison
Jul 13th
The popular discreet dating siteAshleyMadison.com is great for the person looking for a discreet partner, but there are some things you need to know prior to using their site.
First off is when you join. There are 3 main price points, $49, $149, and $249. Unfortunately, while $49 looks great as an entry point, it really is a waste of money. Since AshleyMadison goes off of a credit system, $49 doesn’t give you enough credits to actually meet that discreet partner. You will then be forced to purchase more credits. When you do this, the price jumps from $49 to $79 as your minimum price.
Word to the wise: Pay the $149 or $249 package if you really are looking for a discreet relationship. The $249 package is ideal as it’s the only package they offer that comes with a money back guarantee.
Secondly, is Ashley Madison Mobile. When you join any Ashley Madison membership package, they automatically charge you $20 to use their mobile platform. Now, this platform is kinda neat as it allows you to meet members on the go. The problem is, it’s not for everyone.
Word to the wise: Pay for a package and UNCHECK the mobile option initially. If you find that AshleyMadison is working great for you, then by all means, get the mobile platform.
I know this makes you want to scream Ashley Madison scam, but truth be told, all dating sites use some form of deceptive marketing techniques. Ultimately, they are trying to get you to join for free then get you to pony up. What makes Ashley Madison different is simply this: If you are looking for a discreet partner, this site can make it happen for you! To minimize the cost you have to pay in using the site, this article will dramatically save you in the long run. So go ahead and have that guaranteed affair today!
Great Ashley Madison Video
Jun 11th
To step back from the ashley madison scam talk, below is a HYSTERICAL video surrounding celebrity affairs. With all the Jesse James, Tiger Woods, etc etc talk, sometimes you just need to step back and laugh a little. Definitely worth watching.
Is Ashley Madison a Scam or Goldmine?
May 14th
Ashleymadison is an agency that caters to the discreet dating world, primarily discreet affairs. We all know the world of escorts, affairs, and discreet dating has always been around. It has always been an underground market that is now starting to see day light. This brings us to an interesting crossroads, hence the popularity of Ashley Madison.
Is Ashley Madison a Scam?
The whole concept behind Ashley Madison is rather simple, its a dating site catered to people looking for discreet relationships (everything from affairs, married and looking, sugar daddies, and a slew of enticing underground market matchups). Thats right folks, this isnt the Match.coms of the world, Ashley Madison is catering to a niche that has always existed in society. Now, gathering these like minded men and women on one side can lead to some rather interesting relationships.
In the summer of 2008, Ashley Madison had a little over 2 million members. Fast forward less than 2 years later, they are at 6 million members. Now, thats EXPLOSIVE growth. Thing is, they havent even scratched the surface of whats out there. Then to make matters even more interesting, Ashley Madison had their highest number of female signups the day after mothers day. Mother’s Day – are you kidding me?
To go off topic a minute, there’s a trend now with seniors that are dating. Initially you’re thinking, oh thats cute. They deserve to date if they are widowed, singled, divorced, etc. In actuality, theres a mini epidemic occuring with this age group. STDS. Think about about, the generation of seniors when they were dating, the only thing they had to worry about was pregnancy. Since that is a non issue, the amount of unprotected sex that occurs is high. Throw in multiple partners, the increase in STDs occurs.
Ok, back on topic. Does Ashley Madison suck? Is Ashley Madison a scam? or a gold mine. Basically it comes out to the perspective you take.
Lets look at some stats shall we.
Divorce Rates – Up year over year
Marriages – First time where its less than 50%
Celebrity Cheating – All time high and climbing!
It seems now every week, there’s a celebrity caught cheating on their wives. Now, within their inner circle, this has always been true. What makes the present and the future different is the immediate access to this information. Sandra Bullock didn’t know until she received a phone call from a tabloid. Twitter, Facebook, instant access to information allows the public in many times to know before the person being cheated on knows.
Fast forward to the Ashley Madison phenomenom. There are 3 packages, $49, $149, and $249. For $249, Ashley Madison will guarantee you an affair. Basically you need to follow a certain criteria. And if you are not able to have an affair, you get your money back. Really is the best deal. For me, I wanted to test out the $49 plan before hitting it up for $249. So I chatted with 8 women in a course of two weeks. Starting having a lot in common with this one woman. We started chatting over the phone at one point, we then met up for coffee at Starbucks. Our “cover story” was we were both co-workers. You know, it was a rather pleasant experience. We were both in similar situations in our relationships, and it was nice to have that open conversation with someone that is not there to judge you. Over a couple weeks we started chatting more, hanging out, one thing led to another… and lets just say “thank you ashley madison”
Now, not everyone will have as positive of an experience as I did. Let’s face it, not everyone finds someone on every dating site they go to. But I for one , from personal experience, can tell you that ashleymadison is definitely NOT a scam, Ashley Madison does not suck, and yes its a freakin goldmine!
Another hit from Ashley Madison making its way in the underground world deals with an arrangement mindset. In short, there are tons of young girls (18-25 years old) having a hard time making ends meet. These are educated attractive girls looking for a man that will help her out. In return, you get a relationship you could only wish for. Find these types of girls at ArrangementFinders.com
