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Seahawks, Jets, Ravens, and the Packers… all relatively surprise winners of their respective playoff games. The only ones that made out great were the bookies this past weekend. If you fall under this category, don’t feel bad, it happens every playoff season. With the angst that comes with losing, many men look to ways to feeling better about themselves.
The amateurs go to escorts, some married ones go to strip clubs. But, with the proliferation of online dating, you see a climb in all these niche dating sites popping up. Since Ashley Madison is the only one that caters to discreet dating, combined with a New Year, you get insane demand for sex outside the marriage. Word to the wise, if you go down this path it’s VERY HARD to go back. While some think Ashley Madison scam, their 8+million members will surprise you!
Now, if you’re the type that always went to escorts, you know the risks that are out there. Furthermore, you know it’s not worth the risk. Be smart and go the ArrangementFinders.com route. Basically, it’s a site filled with women looking for men that can financially help them. In return, you have one hell of a relationship!
Now I know this article only speaks to a smaller percentage of the population; however, there seems to be a growing number of married men looking to have discreet relationships with bigger women (BBW). The odd part is this trend keeps climbing, but why? Welcome to the underground world of chubby chasers.
Your stereotype of an affair for a man is simple: he’s bored with his partner and is looking for a new sexual partner. For a woman, normally she is not satisfied emotionally and physically with her man, and is looking for that deeper affair elsewhere. Most men will f*** anything that moves, but it seems the shift towards bigger women is an intriguing one.
For every guy, there was that girl he wished he NEVER hooked up with. Could have been the ugly girl, the old girl, the dirty girl, or the chubby one. Now these bigger women are targeting married men to have affairs with. Basically, these married men are wanting change but more importantly, most do not want to leave their wives. Now, if these men had affairs with that a hot model, there’s a real good chance that marriage would end in seconds. Now, if you have an encounter with a BBW, he mentally will not leave his wife for a BBW.
Now, I know this comes across as negative to BBW, but you actually have these chubby chasers on Ashley wanting these bigger women. We all like women with some meat on their bones, but how much meat do you want! Check out the chubby chasers component of Ashley
Seems like s simple question right? I know tons of married guys that love looking through the escort section of craigslist or through any free personals site out there. Thing is, some of these guys will never actually meet these women So I ask, why put yourself through that? I mean, why email and converse with these women if you aren’t pulling the trigger. Their answer is quite simple, they like the idea of HAVING THE ABILITY to have an affair with another women if they WANTED to, but won’t actually do it. WHAT?
You see, I think that’s more demented than having an actual affair. The other side of the spectrum are the guys that ARE looking for a REAL affair. While some revert to the escort route (which I highly DO NOT recommend from the disease factor alone), there are some that look for that discreet encounter. That’s where Ashley Madison comes in. This discreet dating site has nearly 7 million members all looking for a discreet encounter / affair.
What I was surprised to learn is some of those same guys (from the first paragraph) actually PAY to join sites like Ashley. They chat with these women, but never actually meet them. Why do that to yourself? I mean, I totally understand the mental tug of war you’re going through. You want to be faithful to your partner, while the other side wants to feel that “newness” of a different woman. After all, it’s human nature to want change, but is this sort of change good for you?
Only you can answer this question, but if you’re the type that is looking at escorts and women constantly and never meeting them, then you need to do something. Either confront your wife of what’s truly bothering you (which for most men it’s the natural desire of wanting a new sexual encounter) or actually go out there and have that affair and move on with it. If you are going to do, give your partner enough respect to not do it with an escort. Why bring diseases home ya know? Go the guaranteed affair route with Ashley >>
To step back from the ashley madison scam talk, below is a HYSTERICAL video surrounding celebrity affairs. With all the Jesse James, Tiger Woods, etc etc talk, sometimes you just need to step back and laugh a little. Definitely worth watching.
Ashleymadison is an agency that caters to the discreet dating world, primarily discreet affairs. We all know the world of escorts, affairs, and discreet dating has always been around. It has always been an underground market that is now starting to see day light. This brings us to an interesting crossroads, hence the popularity of Ashley Madison.
The whole concept behind Ashley Madison is rather simple, its a dating site catered to people looking for discreet relationships (everything from affairs, married and looking, sugar daddies, and a slew of enticing underground market matchups). Thats right folks, this isnt the Match.coms of the world, Ashley Madison is catering to a niche that has always existed in society. Now, gathering these like minded men and women on one side can lead to some rather interesting relationships.
In the summer of 2008, Ashley Madison had a little over 2 million members. Fast forward less than 2 years later, they are at 6 million members. Now, thats EXPLOSIVE growth. Thing is, they havent even scratched the surface of whats out there. Then to make matters even more interesting, Ashley Madison had their highest number of female signups the day after mothers day. Mother’s Day – are you kidding me?
To go off topic a minute, there’s a trend now with seniors that are dating. Initially you’re thinking, oh thats cute. They deserve to date if they are widowed, singled, divorced, etc. In actuality, theres a mini epidemic occuring with this age group. STDS. Think about about, the generation of seniors when they were dating, the only thing they had to worry about was pregnancy. Since that is a non issue, the amount of unprotected sex that occurs is high. Throw in multiple partners, the increase in STDs occurs.
Ok, back on topic. Does Ashley Madison suck? Is Ashley Madison a scam? or a gold mine. Basically it comes out to the perspective you take.
Lets look at some stats shall we.
Divorce Rates – Up year over year
Marriages – First time where its less than 50%
Celebrity Cheating – All time high and climbing!
It seems now every week, there’s a celebrity caught cheating on their wives. Now, within their inner circle, this has always been true. What makes the present and the future different is the immediate access to this information. Sandra Bullock didn’t know until she received a phone call from a tabloid. Twitter, Facebook, instant access to information allows the public in many times to know before the person being cheated on knows.
Fast forward to the Ashley Madison phenomenom. There are 3 packages, $49, $149, and $249. For $249, Ashley Madison will guarantee you an affair. Basically you need to follow a certain criteria. And if you are not able to have an affair, you get your money back. Really is the best deal. For me, I wanted to test out the $49 plan before hitting it up for $249. So I chatted with 8 women in a course of two weeks. Starting having a lot in common with this one woman. We started chatting over the phone at one point, we then met up for coffee at Starbucks. Our “cover story” was we were both co-workers. You know, it was a rather pleasant experience. We were both in similar situations in our relationships, and it was nice to have that open conversation with someone that is not there to judge you. Over a couple weeks we started chatting more, hanging out, one thing led to another… and lets just say “thank you ashley madison”
Now, not everyone will have as positive of an experience as I did. Let’s face it, not everyone finds someone on every dating site they go to. But I for one , from personal experience, can tell you that ashleymadison is definitely NOT a scam, Ashley Madison does not suck, and yes its a freakin goldmine!
Another hit from Ashley Madison making its way in the underground world deals with an arrangement mindset. In short, there are tons of young girls (18-25 years old) having a hard time making ends meet. These are educated attractive girls looking for a man that will help her out. In return, you get a relationship you could only wish for. Find these types of girls at ArrangementFinders.com